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[quote=Anonymous]Watch the movie "Take this Waltz".  I'm actually divorced (starter marriage) but got divorced younger & when I had no kids.  I was miserable living with someone I didn't really love.  BUT also realize the world out beyond is not necessarily full of passion and love and lust ... it's often made up of self-involved jerks and guys who are terrible terrible terrible in bed.  Married now to guy I do love & have 2 great kids - but there were lots of trade offs.  (He is not a great provider & not as able to manage some basic life skills -- and I in turn work my ass off - but end of day, I do love him which does count for a whole lot.) Dating for a decade in between marriages was less than a picnic for the most part.  The dating pool of 40+ yr old men is often men who are not married for good reason, serial cheaters, bad lovers, balding out of shapers, bad providers, etc.  Anyway, watch the movie - romanticizing the shiny thing beyond your current life is often just a mirage.  [/quote]

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