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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]My goodness - 20 pages in and some people still cannot see that there are 2 different issues at play.

1.  OP having sex with multiple guys (which most say is fine).

2. OP's assertion that #1 is LTR guy but not worthy of sleeping with while #2 and #3 are and #1's reaction to the whole scene. Two different issues!!!

I guess the rub for me is this.  A lot of men have told us how men would feel in that situation.  Surprising to me, it is not that different than how I would feel if I saw I guy I was "dating" out with another girl.  I imagine I might be a little put off about it even if were supposed to be exclusive or not. The problem I have with this whole thread is that a lot of us (women) in this thread are either mixing the two issues or arguing with the men about whether a man's feelings are valid.

If guy #1 wanted to be exclusive, he probably should have spoken up.  But NONE of us were there except OP, and body language, unspoken cues, and implications arising from things that were said could play into this. [/quote]

Finally, a sane voice.  Thank you!  [/quote]

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