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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]40 yo Navy vet PP here, my preference for 27-32 is because I want to have children. The women attacking me assume that I’m chasing looks or beauty, no.

I dated a woman my age for 4 years in my mid 30s. She didn’t want to have children and ended the relationship. I want a woman who wants to build a family together, not see family or children as side quest to her girlboss aspirations.

You can’t get around the fertility wall at 35. Sorry, biology and data speaks the truth here. [/quote]

Most women don’t want an old dad..

We seem them on full display on our kids college campus..Move in and out day in particular.

Out of breath, can’t lift chit,  asking all the younger fathers for help, complaining about their replaced knees.

Ehhhh.

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I mean, 40 isn't THAT old for a man to start a family, but I largely agree with you. The thing about these smug dudes who walk around talking about the "fertility wall" is that they assume the women all want what they have.

In reality, women in their 20s are going to be looking for men in their 20s and 30s, and the "highest status" women are meeting those men at graduate school and work, not on dating apps.

Women in their early 30s might be willing to look at a guy in his early 40s, but guys who walk around observing women's biological clocks are not generally that pleasant to be around.

If PP drags this out until he's like 45, the chances drop because THEN you are getting into "is this dude going to be around to see our kids graduate college" territory. Not to mention "what's the autism risk for a 45 year-old dad" territory.  
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Absolutely agree. [/quote]

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