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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Yes.  Like that.  He technically did what was asked, but didn’t put any actual effort in or pretend to care.  He just went into the regular candy aisle instead of the “seasonal” aisle a few steps further into the store.  [/quote]

I checked with Hershey. They affirm their payday and hershy almonds candy is Easter-approprate candy.

And how do you know what aisle OPs husband bought the candy? Are you stalking him?

[quote=Anonymous]If this is the effort you are willing to put into things your spouse cares about, then don’t be surprised when it goes both ways, and your wife treats your sex life as a task that she puts the bare minimum effort into.  I mean, do what you want, but you are taking a woman who wants to be with you and turning her into someone who is fine with you both doing your own thing alone.  [/quote]

How do you keep accurate and fair scores in the transactional sex relationship you describe?

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I keep score by knowing that my husband and I both love each other and want the other person to be happy.  It’s really easy.  [/quote]

[i]"If this is the effort you are willing to put into things your spouse cares about, then don’t be surprised when it goes both ways, and your wife treats your sex life as a task that she puts the bare minimum effort into"[/i]

Explain this. Your husband brings home seasonally inappropriate candy, according to your definition of seasonally appropriate.

How are you keeping score based on the comment you made (and probably now regret making)?[/quote]

If I were married to a man who refused to get the kind of candy I wanted because he only does the things that he cares about or that he wants to do, then eventually I would start to follow his lead and just do the things that I care about or that I want to do.  I think this is just human nature.  
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How did your DH take it when you told him that you neither care about nor want to do sex?

Let me guess, he already knew.[/quote]

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