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Reply to "I went to visit a swingers club for the first time. AMA"
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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]This is one of these things that is hotter as a fantasy than in real life. And it is not advantageous to men. Unless you are the kind of guy that women are attracted to in bars, the female is going to get a lot more attention. It's evolutionary psychology. The most average woman is going to get tons of attention.[/quote] This seems like how a bro-podcaster would approach the topic. "Well, if it's not sexually advantageous to the man, then it's bad or less" Also, using 'the female' instead of 'woman' or 'wife' or 'partner' is another tell. What about rejecting that paradigm? How about opening your mind to the idea that you can derive pleasure from your partner being pleased? And what if that pleasure for your partner is a sensual massage or something that gives 'no advantage' to you? My husband gets so much pleasure from my pleasure. That is ridiculously hot.[/quote] Agreee![/quote]
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