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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote]If I encountered it I would probably discuss our plans with our pediatrician and see whether they thought the kids socioemotional health was best served by being in school or with family.[/quote]

If your child does not need the instruction and is not missing anything important--then why are you worried about it being excused?  Why are you demanding that the teacher provide work if she is not teaching?   PP claims her child will be just fine academiclally.[/quote]

If she’s not teaching there wont be any assignments to provide.

If [b]i[/b] was taking a long flight or had significant downtime [b]I’d[/b] ask for the material. If [b]i [/b]got pushback[b] id [/b]seek an excused absence. [b]I [/b]wouldn’t follow an arbitrary rule so a teacher felt powerful not doing what others do hsppily.[/quote]

So, who is the one here claiming to be powerful?

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What a weird reaction— parents get work for their traveling kids every day.  Isn’t this what you want? Parents working with their kids out of school?

Really nothing will satisfy you. Don’t take kids out — even if there is a sub or non important materials. Don't fall behind but don’t keep up! [/quote]

Your kid actually can’t “keep up” with 4 weeks of packet work. What we can’t send along is all the instruction and activities we do to help them learn the content and master the skills that work should assess. [b]At BEST we can send 4 weeks of busy work which is pointless to ask us to put together and pointless for your kid to do. [/b]We can’t send the next 4 weeks of lessons and new content. I’ve mentioned in this thread before the kid who went to India for over a month last year and the dad wanted us to have 1:1 Google meet lessons (this was denied). But we did post all the work for him online, even though in my class no assignments are even done online. Nevertheless I did it. He emailed us saying his son was having trouble understanding the material posted in Schoology. No duh!! He was not here to be taught it! [/quote]

Wait a second— we just had a retired teacher tel us that busywork was SO IMPORTANT that kids should come to school to receive instruction from her pre-positioned busywork folder instead of spending time with their families. [/quote]

LOL!  I'm the retired teacher whose words you have conveniently twisted.  You skipped the part about the detailed plans and the materials for the lessons that were left on my desk.  The folder of "busy work" was "just in case."

But, the part I really don't understand is the parent who thinks that lessons go in "lock step."  This assumes that every lesson is a complete success and that all of the students clearly "get" it.  Gee, sometimes a lesson needs repetition and more practice--and sometimes, the kids get it so quickly that you can skip along to the next one.

But, PP has decided that the teacher is supposed to anticipate exactly what her child needs.

And, as preparing the lesson for the kids with "strep."  If she cannot see the difference here, then she cannot be helped. And, kids are seldom out sick for weeks--and, believe me, most teachers would lovingly do as much as possible to help that kid.  But, traveling mom thinks this is the same thing.  And, FWIW, a sick child definitely suffers and a really sick child is going to need lots of extra help on return--because they likely have not been able to keep up because he does not feel well.

[b]As for the doctor--sounds like a quack if he is giving excuses for travel.[/b]
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If you don’t know how over FCPS most local pediatric practices are you’re living under a rock. There are memes about them printed out in the nurses station of ours.[/quote]

Is it a school’s responsibility to keep pediatricians happy?

No. 
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Of course, not, but don’t be shocked that many pediatricians are more than happy to make sure their patients aren’t being arbitrary penalized by FCPS. They remember being at work while their kids were at home “learning”[/quote]

Ah one of the idiotic “Schools were closed during a pandemic when millions of people were dying” geniuses. I can’t wait for you rkid to get to college and watch the Professors laugh at her COVID is the excuse of everything attitude. [/quote]

COVID may not be the reason for everything but its definitely the reason my pediatricians office has FCPS memes on the wall and has no problem keeping their patients insulated from dumb policies.

They also require vaccination so don’t worry its not only MAHA fringe who is over FCPS.[/quote]

Complaining about COVID policies on the one hand and claiming that expecting kids not to take extended vacations while school is in session is a little ironic.

I hated the COVID policies and think they made terrible decisions.  I also think kids should be in school when school is in session.  [/quote]

It may seem ironic. You concluded that kids should be in school whenever FCPS decides they feel like having school. I concluded that FCPS doesn’t remotely care about the well-being of their students or their families, and so that— and not FCPS’ whims— is my primary concern. It’s in my child's best interest and mu families best interest that we travel and spend time together. That this doesn’t help FCPS meet their attendance metric is for them to worry about.[/quote][/quote]

Then, quit complaining about unexcused absences or teachers who don't produce packets of work for you.  Your child obviously does not need instruction.[/quote]

The one complaining is the power mad principal. As I’ve said my experience is supportive teachers happy to provide material.

If that changed I’d get the absence excused and the teacher would have to provide makeup work.  I think most teachers aren’t so bitter as the ones here who begrudge children a few days with their grandparents.[/quote]

I’m a teacher. It isn’t about being bitter. It’s about being disrespected.

I’m all for your trip to see the grandparents. I’ll make the packets, meet after school to get your kid caught up, check in multiple times, etc. But just be gracious about it and not entitled. (And your comment about just forcing the work by getting it “excused”? That’s disrespectful, dismissive, and entitled.)

This is taking time I don’t have and it’s keeping me from 1,000 other things I need to be doing at that moment. I’m overworked, overextended, and tired.

So the sense of entitlement needs to disappear. Say “thank you” and all will be fine. And make it sincere.[/quote]

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