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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Talk to him about it and offer to change parenting days when he travels. If its not ok his mom care for the kids, why is it ok yours care when she's not doing well herself and cannot actually care for the kids.  You both need a real and realistic back up plan.[/quote]

Mine doesn’t even live with us and wouldn’t care for DC. DC is 8. I’m just imagining a future when DC is 13 and my mom has moved in and DC can’t stay home “alone” like a normal 13 year old for a few hours because they would be technically in the house with my mom so DH could trigger ROFR.[/quote]

If DH did this, they would annoy their teen child and it would not go well for dad.

Just wait until you are co-parenting a teen with strong opinions…They will not be young child easily passed back and forth. They will have resentments.

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Or maybe they will resent you taking dad away.  [/quote]

Taking the dad away...or the dad walking away?[/quote]

If you refuse contact you are taking the kids dad away.  You will not all him in their life.  Take responsibility.  [/quote]
No one is refusing him contact. Stop making things up to further your misogynistic narrative. Being a dead beat father is not your ex's problem, it's yours and yours only. [/yquote]

This dad is not a deadbeat.  Op needs to switch weeks.  [/quote]

The dad’s a deadbeat. He left his family and can’t even be present for the fractional amount of time that he’ll have responsibility for and access to his kid. [/quote]

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