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[quote=Anonymous]I am appalled that the surrogates aren't being given medical info about the IPs when that info can affect the GC's own health. In Bi's case, it is obvious that she and/her H are the "defective" ones. In both pregnancies it was the placenta that was the problem and the placenta has the IP's DNA, not the GC's. If Bi and her H try for the third child I doubt very much they will voluntarily disclose what happened to the first 2 surrogates. In the aggregate, the rate of issues with non-related fetuses is about 8 percent, but in Bi's case it is obviously MUCH higher than that for a third GC.

Read the autopsy report. There was nothing wrong with the fetus. No evidence that he was "defective," to use Bi's word. No evidence that he was damaged by "rough sex" or a kick from her son, i.e., no evidence of bruising.

Bottom line: if the IP has any medical conditions or a family history of any illnesses which could affect the GC, those should have to be disclosed to the GC.

I have to LOL at the comment that women without fertility problems had to settle for second rate husbands. Yep, there are lots of very special elite men out there who want to marry women who want to employ other, poorer women to carry their kids to term. The first thing these men ask at the beginning of a relationship is whether the woman is willing to employ a surrogate. If the answer is no, these elite, high status men immediately bail. Of course, these special elite men are only interested in women beyond the normal child bearing age who have frozen their eggs or who care so much about their looks they don't want to risk a pregnancy or are unwilling or unable to pass up drugs and alcohol for 9 months or who have medical conditions which might make pregnancy difficult and which may be passed onto any children born from their eggs. (I know people who have fallen in love with people who are bi-polar who have broken it off and/or agreed to marry provided they agree there will be no biological children. Heck, I know multiple bipolar people who say right up front they are unwilling to have kids.)

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