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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote]I think you explained well what some people have been trying to say - the husband is the first one that is responsible for creating this situation. He did a careless thing - no sane adult would think it is ok to leave a massive watermelon in the fridge without cutting it up and putting it into a container. So he engaged in a thoughtless, rude act. OP then confronted him about it and explained the problem with what he had done. Her husband did not care. At that point, OP decided that she was done trying to communicate because, honestly, if her husband couldn't figure out that she'd be upset with his actions then he's a moron (or he's lazy, careless, uncaring, whatever else). At that point OP could have explained again, and in more detail, what the issue was, but I feel like those of you acting like at that point her husband would have miraculously seen the error of his ways are deluding yourselves. Most likely he would have continued to not care and then gone on his trip. As a result, OP decided it wasn't worth another conversation and decided to vent anonymously and see if anyone else had any similar stories. [b]Just let her do that and save your sanctimony for your own lives, where I'm sure you would never do something as thoughtless as what OP's husband did and you would never complain about anything your spouse did to anyone ever.[/b]
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Please quote any post where a poster wrote that "her husband would have miraculously seen the error of his ways". Instead, there are many posts focused on the truth you are ignoring, which is: the OP made, at the very least, a very unmannerly gesture by starting a thread titled "Lazy, careless DH stories" over the way her DH left a watermelon in her fridge.

Leaving the watermelon the way he did was inconsiderate. The time the OP has spent complaining about it, and justifying the tone of her complaints, is petty to the point of being vile. And, yes, I would never start a thread calling my spouse lazy and careless, and spend hours following up on it, if she did not properly store some fruit in our fridge.[/quote]

There are numerous posters here posting about how it is completely normal and okay to describe someone who is lazy and careless and is unwilling to cut a watermelon when asked, as lazy and careless. Don't want to be called lazy and careless? Don't be lazy and careless. And just because a woman vents online about you doesn't mean she won't "take action" and divorce your lazy ass. She may love you but she can stop loving you and from there it takes time to decide to pull the plug. [/quote]

This is strange logic. That means that every person in the universe is “lazy and careless” if you’re applying it to a single action, i.e. leaving a cut watermelon in the fridge. Then we’re all guilty of it by a single instance. If that’s the case, why call out DH for something that is universal? [/quote]

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