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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I agree with 10:19. Your wife has sacrificed her body, her sleep, her mental energy, her emotional well to ensure the survival and well-being of your babies. Your sacrifice--several years of less sex. [/quote]

I'd throw in that SHE wanted #2 but....oh well    :lol:[/quote]

So you resent the baby then?[/quote]

No I don't.  While I was necessary in producing #2, [b]I made it clear that I wasn't looking forward to being in that stage of parenthood again[/b].  That stage where the mother lacks sleep and you have even less sex than normal.[/quote]

Does anyone look forward to the lack of sleep and difficulties associated with newborns?

Seriously, OP?  You sound like a 13yo boy.[/quote]

Ah, and now we're back to "wanting sex is immature." [/quote]

No, that's not what I said.  I do think that bringing up the issue of whether this baby was 100% wanted is immature.  [/quote]

Well, I think the question of who wanted the baby became relevant when someone above seemed to be suggesting that his desire for sex was somehow less legitimate because his wife "sacrificed" for the baby. It wasn't a sacrifice *for* him. So it's not exactly an even trade. If she was the driving force in baby #2, the exchange was more like "I want a baby, and it's going to mean I don't want sex as much, so I also want you to have less sex." [/quote]

So it is acceptable among mature adults to determine who in a couple "wanted" their child more and to use that information in a conversation like this?

Really?[/quote]

The question of who wanted the baby is NEVER relevant.  This is their CHILD.  He exists and OP is his father.  Any look-back to who wanted this child and how much is unproductive, hurtful, and IMMATURE.[/quote]

Agreed.  OP, how do you think your child would feel one day knowing how you have spoken about this situation?  [/quote]

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