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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Don’t let interested children work in restaurants. Where’s the father?[/quote]

You already know there’s no father- a father wouldn’t allow this.[/quote]

OP here. Please, do go on. I love the creativity. I’ve made popcorn.

(My husband / daughter’s dad isn’t enjoying it so much; he thinks at least 60% of dcum posts are from incel scum masquerading as concerned parents. I confess his theory seems to have merit.) [/quote]

he can think whatever he wants. you two don't sound like very concerned parents though. [/quote]

Well he’s a college professor; he generally has a pretty high opinion of people that age— their abilities and resilience. And he really, really hates seeing rich kids who’ve been spoiled into helplessness and entitlement. He blames the parents for that. So that probably colors his thinking on how to set kids up for success. We are aligned in this. [/quote]

Fine. So what is his solution for your daughter taking unwanted harassments from sleezy men? Just keep taking it to make sure she doesn't turn out to be spoiled and entitled kid? [/quote]

Thats the literal post. We teach our kids how to live in the world instead of isolating them from it. (No private schools. No personal cars. No nepobaby “jobs”.)

We asked if she wanted to quit, if it was at that level of discomfort. She said no, she likes the job, she’s just flustered by the attention from adult men. So this *entire* post was an attempt to crowdsource some thoughts from people who’ve been in her shoes, to teach her how to be comfortable doing something she said she wants to do. It’s a learning process and I’m very proud of her for sticking with it.

More fool I for thinking I’d get anything useful from you wretched trolls. (A few exceptions of course, and thank you to those who engaged like decent humans. [b]Something about teenaged girls really brings out the worst in these other people.)[/b] [/quote]
You mean the pedo men that want to keep their harassment of children totes fine. What the F is wrong with men. I'm so sorry for your daughter to have to experience this. [/quote]

The creeps are easy to spot, and we expect this behavior from some men. And honestly, I survived and so will my daughter. Clever tips would have been nice, but whatever, we’ll be ok. 
I’m actually more worried about the posters here who claim to be mothers and happily throw a beautiful naive young woman under the bus for internet points. (Probably the same women who say that an infant girl learning to smile is “flirting”.) 
I worked hill-adjacent for years and met lots of these women who hate/fear other women (of any age) and will tear them down at any opportunity.
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