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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I find that marrying a quality person and being a thoughtful spouse has a 100% success rate. There are no people on either side of the family that are divorced. [/quote]

You sound smug. And like you haven’t been humbled by life. [/quote]

LOL why is staying married and being a quality person considered smug and superiority complex?? Very weird. I would say it's quite a feat and everyone should be proud to manage all the challenges and weather all the storms with their significant other through the years.[/quote]

Because you’re making the classic human mistake that your positive situation is 100% due to your actions. And it’s not. And makes you think you have full control and therefore bad stuff will not happen to you. It’s called hubris and many Greek tragedies have covered it.[/quote]

Divorce isn’t something that just happens to the vast majority of married couple.  It’s an active choice.[/quote]

Sometimes it is an active choice for one party and the other just gets dragged along for the ride.  It only takes one to divorce.  There was no discussion at my house.  I was told as he walked out the door.  Am I perfect?  Nobody is perfect.  Now he has started a new family.  At least The New Wife won’t be surprised like I was.  She knows he’s capable of just walking out one day.  I hope my kids will be okay in the end.  If not, it won’t be because of my lack of trying.    [/quote]

Yep, same. He just left and decided he wanted to be an every other weekend dad. Having freedom to go to the bar and get a new lil girlfriend was more important than our family.

Anyway, there are a lot of smug people in this thread but rest assured you will get yours. Life can turn on a dime and I hope when some calamity that is out of your control happens to you, you think back to this. Karma has a funny way of coming around. [/quote]

You are a deeply unpleasant, spiteful person. I’m not surprised your husband left you.[/quote]

DP but based on your posts you deserve some spite.[/quote]

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