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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]What’s the actual definition of an incel? A guy who is young, struggles with women, and sexually frustrated? That’s actually very normal.

Young men and teenagers have a combination of raging hormones, high sex drive, and a huge social pressure to be good with girls. Yet at the same time don’t have much to actually offer, and little accomplishments/experience to give them confidence. This is why dating as a young man is difficult you basically start at the bottom, while a young woman is at the peak of her physical attractiveness and usually gets tons of attention without putting in much effort.

When I was a young guy, nerdy, probably me and all of my friends would have been considered incels if that term existed back then. We weren’t violent or anything, but definitely frustrated. All it took for me was some maturing and a few accomplishments to improve my self esteem enough to pursue women. [/quote]

No; it is definitely not normal.[/quote]

Yes it is. Everything the PP described is within the range of normal for average kids who grow up to be fine.

It’s not every teen boy’s experience but it certainly isn’t crazy or unusual.[/quote]

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