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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]While I think it’s important for betrayed spouses to know, i think that the intent of sharing that information matters. It should come of a place of concern for THEM, not from a place of needing to offload or share the pain of the person who knows.

I feel like this case is the latter, and I also don’t think that sharing the information is truly as freeing as OP thinks it was.[/quote]

I don't think it matters at all.

It can be a little bit of both.  [b]They can want the spouse to know so they have their ducks in a row, can protect their children from any potential crazies, get their affairs in order knowing they are married to someone that is going to likely file for divorce w/out their being clued in for years, and protect themselves against STIs.[/b]  And, they can also be pissed and want this person out of their family, their lives.  It's kind of honorable to take one off the market--maybe just maybe that won't do it to another person after getting caught.  One can hope the revelation will cure them of their deficiencies and force some self introspection about how deceitful and morally corrupt they are.[/quote]

Oh please, OP doesn’t give a damn about any of this. [/quote]

Your hatred aimed at op makes me think you are a liar and did cheat and it blew up your marriage. [/quote]

DP, but do you always name call
And sling mud/ accusations at people who dare to have a different opinion than you do? [/quote]

The post above is true, isn't it?[/quote]

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