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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Why do some many of you ladies marry men you hate and don’t respect and then and have children with them and then spend the rest of your life complaining about how horrible they are?

Was the sex really that good?  Or maybe these losers really are just the best you could do?[/quote]

FFS. Another one of these posts. You have lived a very privileged and fortunate life since you seem never to have encountered anyone who was great at masking their real self, their issues, their ADHD or OCD or whatever uring dating, engagement and the early stages of marriage.

You have zero idea how well some people can cover, and how well some people with severe issues can cope sufficiently UNTIL children, a house to look after, and increasing work responsibilities make all their worst attributes emerge.

Blaming the "ladies" for marrying these men is insane. These men were like this, underneath, all along, but did not fully show it until after marriage, when day to day real life started to ask more of them than just being self-focused, just doing their job and coming home to their wife.

You do not remotely understand this dynamic, yet come here to condescend to, insult and blame the wives. I'm sure you're superior to them all. And before you say I'm projecting: My marriage isn't like this, thank God, but I've seen this dynamic destroy a couple of marriages where the DH fell to pieces once he was needed to cope with anything other than himself. Undiagnosed, untreated, unmedicated, and discovered late, ADHD and ADD and executive functioning issues kill respect, override affection and destroy marriages, and it's not the fault of the spouse who was only shown a deceptively "together" version of that man.[/quote]

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