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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]While visiting my husband's brother's family this summer, we went to the beach and their 16 year old daughter and her friends wore those bikini's that aren't quite thongs, but about 3/4 of their butt cheeks were hanging out.  I'm shocked that DH brother and wife allow her to wear a swimsuit like that, but I kept my mouth shut.  My daughters are a bit younger, but is this the kind of swimsuit that most high school girls wear now? [/quote]

You should continue to keep your mouth shut. My SIL said something similar to me. Something about how she can't believe I let my daughters wear those short shorts. I looked at her and said because they  like them, they fit into them,  they're good kids, and the last thing I'm going to do is shame a girl for what they're wearing. [/quote]

Okay but you didn’t remotely engage with what your SIL said.  And you can’t “shame” a girl (WTF with the overuse of the word “shame” these days, BTW) for the clothes she’s wearing if you just don’t let her wear those clothes in the first place!  I realize this is going to blow your mind, but you are the mother which means you are the decider!  Stop abdicating your responsibilities onto your underage daughter, maybe?[/quote]

Well this might blow your mind, but I actually did let them buy the clothes. I DECIDED they can wear them and that I'm not going to make a big deal over a pair of short shorts that 75% of teen girls wear these days. What makes you think that YOU get to decide what's appropriate for all teen girls, Judgy?[/quote]

Yes, I judge you and your (lack of) parenting.  Way to sexualize your teen daughters, Mom!  Girl power, amirite?[/quote]

Girl power is making sure your daughters love their bodies. Thong  bathing suit team for sure mother of two daughters. They could go naked for all I care. Their body their choice.

Conservative trolls screw off

Signed mother of two IVY league graduates STEM fields one is CTO age 34 .

Get your minds out of the gutter right wing idiots [/quote]

What does your 34 yo ivy league grad adult middle aged daughter have to do with this? Seems like you just wanted an excuse to virtue signal. [/quote]

It's just a troll[/quote]

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