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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I try really hard to give my DH partial credit. He’s never ever going to turn into the partner I thought he was going to be, and I’ve tried really hard to let it go. [/quote] DP but OP I think you either embrace radical acceptance or divorce and miss his 80% perhaps. I may have missed it but do you have kids? If not, I'd be more inclined to get out. I think it shows a fundamental disrespect for you. I'm sorry. [/quote] Come on folks. This situation is 90% of Gray Divorces. A loser husband, whom the functional wife protected the kids from and did everything for the family herself until they all got to college. Then she’s free. In the past she’d finally be free when he died. Nowadays, when the writing is on the way that he’d be a terrible coparent and homeowner when married or coparenting, it’s Gray Divorce. [/quote]
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