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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]The cast released a statement via People:

“We are all so utterly devastated by the loss of Matthew. We were more than just cast mates. We are a family," their statement reads. "There is so much to say, but right now we’re going to take a moment to grieve and process this unfathomable loss."
"In time we will say more, as and when we are able," the statement continues. "For now, our thoughts and our love are with Matty’s family, his friends, and everyone who loved him around the world."[/quote]

Took them this long to say “we will say more” later? I see a special on the horizon with proceeds going to his charity.[/quote]

What more is there to say, really?  Since when do people who are not family or current business associates need to make any public statement at all?  How do you read something like this and assume the people involved are busy hatching any plans of any kind?[/quote]

Why are they saying they will say more? Why not a final statement and end it.[/quote]

Move on. It's their grief to manage not yours.[/quote]

I find their statement to very strange.[/quote]

Everyone grieves differently. You have never been in their situation unless you're secretly like a Seinfeld cast member... for you to find it strange makes no sense. [/quote]

When you give a condolence message it’s suppose to be final. Not, “we’ll talk about it later.”

And family? Really? [b]Family gets together for birthdays and holidays.[/b] They didn’t do that except for the girls. Jen has Friendsgiving every year (minus COVID) the day before Thanksgiving and they are not all there.  They are not family nor acct like it.[/quote]

Mine doesn't. "Family" doesn't mean the same thing to everyone.[/quote]

Only see everyone twice in 20 years is a sad thing to call family. Understandable if you live in countries apart and countries that don’t allow freedom of travel. [/quote]

Where do you get the idea that they only saw each other twice in 20 years? It sounds obvious to me that they have seen each other more than that.

But anyway, not everyone has the same idea of family and Perry had a debilitating addiction and that makes relationships very hard. I have a sibling who is an addict and I see him very sporadically. I often text or call him only to discover the number doesn't work anymore because he's let his phone plan lapse again. There was a time when I could maintain better contact because he was married and his wife was very stable, but his addiction and mental health issues destroyed that relationship and since they've been separated, it's very hard to stay in touch.

If you have never had someone like this in your life, you may not get it. But it's possible to love someone and consider them family and not see them very often. Sometimes this is the only sort of relationship available with an addict.[/quote]

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