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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I'm a 30 year old son and my mother and her feelings are going to come before some girl I'm just dating. So if my mom wanted to take a nuclear family only vacation guess what I'm going. My family has been around my whole life and will continue to be around forever.[/quote]

Godspeed to your wife. What a nightmare![/quote]

I said a girlfriend not a wife! There's a huge difference.[/quote]

Wives were once girlfriends [/quote]

The vast majority do not play both roles.

I like that he has a bar, under which, family of origin comes first. [/quote]

Disagree he sounds like a momma's boy. Why would a 30 year old man want to vacation with his mommy while his gf is excluded instead of growing up being a man and vacationing with his romantic partner? That isn't normal for a man that age[/quote]

To be fair, its not like its an impromptu mommy-son trip excluding a GF. Its a family trip planned way before GF came into picture. [/quote]

I understand that but now this gf is in the picture and they been together a year now. The BF should be standing up and saying they are a unit they live together she is also invited she will pay completely her own way but she needs to be welcome. Then if he decides to still go if they don't extend the invite we got a momma's boy on our hands who prioritizes his mom's wishes over his serious gf.

I will make the determination on what one it is when we find out more.[/quote]

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