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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]What if, in my lived experience (is that not redundant?), I found disapproval to be more traumatizing than a moderate, not angry spanking?[/quote] I'm sorry that your parents used their approval to punish you. That IS damaging. Are you also saying that because you did not experience the spanking to be as traumatic as the disapproval, no one else can experience the spanking as more traumatic? ("Lived experience" is maybe redundant, but it is a term used to distinguish between something that has actually happened to someone and something that they believe to be true by way of anecdotes about other people and data they read. Your lived experience is different than that of many people who do experience spanking as a trauma from their childhood.)[/quote]
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