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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Divorce crushes children. Way too many people get divorced who could instead build a more satisfying marriage if they were less selfish, challenged their belief systems, and put in the work.[/quote] Eh. I don’t disagree that many people divorce before really trying to resolve their differences. But I also know plenty of couples who can’t stand each other yet stay together for the kids, under the delusion that being revised by miserably-married parents is healthy for kids. It’s not - especially not when parents then split as soon as the kids leave for college. So maybe my follow up is that if you’re going to stay in your lousy marriage “for the kids,” you stay in it for the long haul and suck it up. The stability you think matters to them when they’re under your roof doesn’t become that much less important once they grow up. Don’t divorce when your kids are adults and assume there will be no fall out.[/quote]
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