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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]PP said it was about having rules & rituals (“scenes”) as well as being submissive. And then also said there actually is some BM. Question is who is submissive in the bedroom.

So…very much like BDSM. [/quote]

I was responding to the person who mentioned BDSM and was saying that is a very small part of our dynamic, 1-2 scented per month that at more on the BD side, and that the submissive side of me in the newsroom is not the same type of submissive outside of the bedrooms.  The scheduled intimate activities aren’t of the BDSM type.
And I am definitely the submissive one.[/quote]

It might appear different without the bedroom accessories but the underlying premise is still the same. Rules. Roles. Rituals. Scenes "ready when gets home from work". Submissive. 
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There is a big difference between submissive spouse and BDSM most submissive housewives would probably be horrified by BDSM.  I also stated the rules go both ways.  Not arguing from my standpoint,  I will happily admit I am submissive in many way.  But I think painting the broad stroke that it is always tied to sex or BDSM is a common misnomer.[/quote]

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