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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]My DD has almost no presence on social media, will that affect her during rush? How important is it to have letters of rec? She will have one from a friend who is involved with one sorority on the national level. Wasn't sure if that is still done or desirable. Probably depends on the school, from what I'm gathering here?[/quote] That’s fine. The letters of Rec seem to be completely disregarded IME. They should stop asking people to waste time on them. Mine had letters from past presidents and they carried zero weight. No social presence is better than bad social. At my DD school, moms coached their girls to make sure their social media made them look fun and rich but to never have a drink in their hand (because during rush they like to pretend drinking isn’t part of Greek life) At an SEC school, it is all about connections with current and very recent grads. They say there’s no dirty rush, but that’s absolutely what happens. At other schools, it might really be about the girl herself and feeling matched with other girls. In any case, she should be braced for the idea that she might get only one house to “rank” on pref night while most people have three. And it might be the only one she didn’t want. [/quote]
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