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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote] I firmly believe that someone who is frantically calculating how much he'd spent on my coffee and cake at first date will be less involved parent and partner down the road [/quote] It’s not the first coffee. It’s every dinner, every show, every non-trivial expenditure. Is the woman who makes as much as the man does being a parasite or is she being an adult?[/quote] I would say it's him every dinner, just because alternating checks or splitting takes away the romance. It's the person who initiates the experience (a show, a non-trivial experience) who pays. I absolutely did get tickets for shows when I was dating. My exH didn't like it though: he was making about 200K and I was making 80K when we dated. He insisted on paying the largest share of these expenses[/quote]
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