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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]In my culture, yes. There's also no expectation the woman has to have sex.
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I'm curious about the culture. I've dated Pakistani women who wouldn't let me pay because that would somehow mean I'm behaving like a husband, and entitle me to sex (which was the farthest thing from my mind, honest). [/quote]

In Eastern Europe, women are generally taught 1) It's offensive for a man if woman insists on her picking check. It's like telling him right in his face that he's not attractive or manly. She can only politely offer to split, and if he declines not to insist on that. Men from some areas close to Asia can in fact get very offended if she's so insistent to pay 2) a decent woman never picks expensive places for first dates - coffee, a bar is ok. A man cannot expect anything sexual in return for these dates. Behaving like she would only date him if he takes her to expensive places for full dinner is slutty, indecent woman behavior 3) if she continues seeing the guy, the woman needs to make some forward gestures, like giving him a scarf, sweater, a perfume etc.

Women in my region /former USSR republic were emancipated and worked equally with men since 1930s. It's only dating etiquette that's affected by this unspoken rules[/quote]

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