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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]There are a fair amount of women who "date" someone they have absolutely no intention of being with just to get a couple of free meals.
Men have caught on to this.
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In some cases, they excuse themselves "to the restroom" , walk out the door, and leave the check behind for her to pay.[/quote]

Really? There are many men who claim to want a relationship when all they want is sex.

It goes both ways.[/quote]

News flash: Sex is free[/quote]

It's really not. Maybe free in terms of money, but when men lied to me for sex and then bailed, it had a huge emotional toll on me and caused quite a bit of damage.

Money isn't the only thing with value. Emotions, intimacy, self-esteem, all of those have value as well. [/quote]

Beautifully stated pp![/quote]

Potential ramifications of sex - contracting a STI, becoming pregnant, and possibly being raped - are very impactful
too, economically and otherwise [/quote]

[b]Okay, so when you contract an STI, become pregnant, or are raped you can seek financial redress.[/b] Asking some guy you barely know to take financial responsibility for these injustices is insane.[/quote]

Please let me know what state allows a woman to sue a man for contracting an STI or terminating an unwanted pregnancy. [/quote]

Who said sue? When I had an unwanted pregnancy, I asked the father to pay for half of the abortion, and he did. You must truly be sleeping with some bottom feeders not to be able to ask your partners for help in a situation like that. Fix your picker.[/quote]

Because that’s what “redress” means. Not optional, partial, help. Nice that he paid for half of your abortion, did you get any sick time back? Did he get any of the side effects of medicine for you? No? Then sorry, you already paid more than half.[/quote]

Sick time? Side effects? The procedure took 10 minutes on a Friday after work, I had a bit of bleeding, he watched stupid movies with me and ordered pizza that night. The next day we went out with friends to a bar to watch a game. It was less eventful than a bad period. Stop trying to make it some huge, expensive trauma.[/quote]

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