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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]My son is 9. He thinks kissing is disgusting. He has no feelings of attraction to girls or boys. He doesn’t even know what that means. Should someone be telling him he might want to identify as asexual? Does it become appropriate to question his identity at age 11 or 13 or 15 or 17? It is perfectly normal to not be interested in either sex at any of these ages. Do you understand why it’s strange to introduce these topics to a middle school kid and then ask them how they identify? I understand why so many kids are truly confused about their identity. Schools keep reinforcing the idea that you should question your identity and have a label. [/quote]

a) It’s for MS not Elementary.  The greater majority of kids in MS are older than 9. B) It is totally fine for kids not to have any attraction towards either sex at any of the ages you mentioned just as it’s perfectly fine for kids to have attraction at any of these ages.  Should we ignore everything that likely will happen for most people at some point in their life, just because your child hasn’t experienced or thought about it yet?

Your kid likely hasn’t thought of or experienced bombs dropping around them or famine.  But kids in the world have.  Does that mean we can’t talk about these things during Social Studies?  Just because the topic is sexuality doesn’t make it any more taboo or kids incapable of absorbing the content and reflecting.[/quote]

You are missing the point. I have taught my kids about gays, lesbians, and even transgender in age appropriate ways. We had this discussion after he saw rainbow flags during pride month. I explained that he knew people that identified this way and they were no different than him. There is a difference between knowing what the words mean and teaching acceptance vs. promoting reading about kids who are questioning their identity at very young ages and wondering if they are normal. That is not the job of a school. [/quote]

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