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Reply to "When to tell kids the truth about their father’s adultery as reason for divorce"
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[quote=Anonymous]Cheating is not abuse. Cheating can happen CONCURRENTLY with forms of abuse (like gaslighting/emotional abuse/financial secrecy) but it can also happen without any of that. If a spouse is abusive, that should not be kept secret and the child should be put in therapy for any abuse they experience and if they are a danger to the child that should be addressed in the child custody arrangements. But if all the spouse did was cheat, then yes you are literally insane to equate it to child abuse. Insane. And you responding with a long anecdote about how really it is because your ex cheated by handcuffing you to a chair in the corner and making you watch them bed multiple women who were wearing your underwear won't change my mind, I'll just say that in ADDITION to being cheated on, you were physically assaulted and emotionally abused. [/quote]
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