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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote] Then why do you guys complain about paying alimony after the divorce?[/quote] She’s no longer my wife, she’s not my responsibility. Oh and if she’s dating some other guy, why the hell am I subsidizing her? She’s his problem now.[/quote] This is exactly why the relevant question is not whether the guy cares about your career, but whether YOU care about your career. Women not working was never meant to be a good deal for women. Wake up, ladies! How is it good for you if your primary access to resources is through your man? A guy who genuinely respects women will understand that women having their power and independence makes the relationship better, not worse. If you’re with a guy who wants a SAHM in this day and age I would really think twice about what it is he expects. And most men of substance, while not caring whether you invented the COVID vaccine or do underwater basket weaving, want a companion who is an intellectual match so they can enjoy your company for years to come as PPs have said. Someone who can challenge them, introduce them to new things, stand up to them and elicit their respect, in addition to the attraction and nurturing. That’s a real partnership. Not someone who only wants to f* you — that’s a dime a dozen.[/quote]
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