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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Honestly OP, you sound like an asshole. You work a lot and like it. Fine. Then you should happily use the money you earn to hire a sitter and stop complaining. There is really nothing to complain about here. DH works outside of the home and also helps with the kid.[/quote] Op: why does he not help out with the admin? He gets all the fun stuff of childcare and I get all the crappy one. Laundry, meal prep, doctor appointments, buying clothes, finding daycare, finding classes, etc. [/quote] Because you’ve been doing it this entire time, it’s invisible labor and he takes it for granted. If you want him to appreciate all you do, stop doing it. Go away for a week and don’t organise things for him. He’ll figure it out quick when he has to fend for himself. Read “drop the ball” by Tiffany Dufu.[/quote]
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