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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Hate? Really? Where do you see hate? I have pity! I don't hate anybody... I just feel really sorry for those who believe that paying someone (very very little) to give their children what we, parents, do for free and out of love is the best they can do. Some of you even said that money was more important! How terrible!

And I did show him this and he laughed. When we decided it was time for kids we made sure we could afford it with SAH/WAH arrangements. He knows my POV and totally supports my decision to SAH and even changed his work arrangement to be able to WAH more often. We don't agree in everything but when we disagree we compromise and the one who didn't get their way always supports the other. As I said before, we're partners! We don't take turns. We work together.

[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]If you guys stop looking at your belly button you'll realize that not everybody has a 9-5er (or 6-9er like some of you seem to have).

DH is not paying me to watch his children and he's not counting on strangers to watch his child. I'm his spouse, his loving partner, the mother of the child. Your little accusation means nothing, it really doesn't make any sense. He's not paying some stranger to to love his child. He's not relaying on a piece of paper or a 5 minute conversation at pick up to know what is going on during his child's day. He's either there watching it while he works from home or hearing first hand from me, [b]his loving wife who has only this child's best interest in mind[/b].

[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]"My child doesn't know statistics. All she knows is that her mommy is there when she falls and gets hurt or when she's hungry for her milk. Not a complete stranger that is paid to "love" her and feed her on a schedule along with 4 other children (depending on the ration established by the state)."

But it's okay that daddy is not there?

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Who said daddy is not there?

Sorry if your DH is absent. Mine is not.[/quote]

So neither you nor your DH works outside the home???  You do realize that very, very few families can afford such an arrangement, right?  You are unbelievable.[/quote]

Who said my husband doesn't work? Lots of assumptions going on here, huh?[/quote]

Not pp you're responding to, but you really are not so smart, huh? Your DH either doesn't work, or works at least as much as a wohm that you keep saying doesn't raise the kid or isn't parenting or is paying someone to love them.  Every thing you are saying about the wohm is the same thing that you are saying about your working DH.  Unless he doesn't work. That's what the pp was saying. No wonder you don't work. You are dumb. [/quote][/quote]

My dear, if you were as loving as you claim to be, you wouldn't be so hateful and narrow-minded towards women whose circumstances are different than yours.  I would rather have my DD be with a day care teacher than pick such narrow-minded, judgmental values from you.  BTW, did you show your DH this thread?  Please do.  I'm curious what his take on this is.  [/quote][/quote]

New poster here - I love that you pity me.

I have a big house, a wonderful job, loving husband.  My daughter is very happy with lots of friends.  We take several expensive vacations a year and I promise you - life is great.

Try being happy and not looking down on others.  It might change your outlook on life.
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