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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Happiness. Hopefully he will find a better partner that gives him what he needs so he isn’t forced to cheat. [/quote]

No one is “forced to cheat.” That’s the talk of a 12 year old boy, not a man. “Mom, yeah, I did it, but it’s not my fault. They MADE ME DO IT!!!”[/quote]

Yes that pp is very disturbed and likely blames others for all their failings in life. [/quote]

Cheating men need to feel superior and grandiose but lack the internal drive to behave in this way. They are unable to validate their own self-worth so they must seek it from somewhere else. This is achieved through the supply. The narcissist needs constant re-assurance that they are the superior person they believe they are. When their partner is not providing this re-assurance and re-supplying their depleting feelings of superiority, they will seek it from someone else. In that moment, they don’t consider, or even care, how their actions affect their partner. All they are focused on is getting their own needs met.

The cheating narcissist uses words and actions to target their partner and attack them to increase their own self-esteem. The devaluation helps the narcissist feel better about themselves as their feelings of grandiosity and superiority slip away. When a narcissist cheats and you find out about it, they don’t feel remorse and instead use this behavior as a way to devalue their partner.

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