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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I am married but fantasize about freedom and divorce. I have two kids and love them to pièces. They are why I am still here. I have my own money, retirement and kids are set with their college funds, all thanks to me. Husband is not of much use and expected me to be taken care of 24/7. I have stopped this nonsense. I sleep in my own bed. I do my thing with my girlfriends. Frankly I don’t understand why a financially independent woman would ever want to get married. There’s nothing in it for her. I caved to family pressure (I’m an immigrant from a conservative family). They wanted me married and I did. I’m now miserable but trying to keep a smile on my face. Not sure how long I’ll be able to keep up with the pretense.[/quote] Sounds like once you got what you wanted -- marriage to get your family off your back and kids -- you just opted out of the marriage. Sounds pretty underhanded and shallow.[/quote] She said he's useless, and expects her to do everything. No thanks, he sounds horrible. Hope she can get away at some point![/quote] I'm sure he suddenly became that way after marriage and kids! Also, useless? Really? Does he make no money? Contribute nothing to the household?[/quote]
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