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[quote=Anonymous]My mom SAH hoping to undo the toxic effects of having been raised by a miserable, absent WOH mother who struggled to make ends meet and didn't have time for her kids. Turns out trying to resolve your own trauma by "doing it differently" doesn't really work and is usually triggering! I WOH and hated every single day of dropping my kids off at their lovely, cheerful daycare. I am much happier now that they are elementary school age and I work part time from home and my work day ends when they get off of the bus. Are they ok? They seem to be joyful and thriving, but maybe they will grow up and resent me and try to fix that through their own kids. Who knows! It's all a crap shoot, but seems to return to the drumbeat of "If mama ain't happy, ain't nobody happy." [/quote]
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