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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Has the OP left her husband yet?[/quote]I actually know thees people.  Don't ask.  I heard that they talked it out and now their marriage is closer than ever.  They also have an order of protection in the works for the OP that will be served to her shortly.[/quote]

In 3 months he was over finding out there were strange men banging his wife in their guest room while he was at work for four years?

Wow.  Marriage therapist experts say it takes a minimum of 2-5 years and lots of individual and couples therapy to even remotely recover from a betrayal of that magnitude.  Dude must still be in shock or didn’t get the true story.  Chump

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Or that are lying about being "closer than ever" ... It does take time and therapy to get over a trauma like that, but it is possible. But 3 months in, the betrayed is still probably in shock and pretending to love their spouse, and shouting out (over social media, most likely) how much they love their spouse, buying them gifts, going on vacations. All while feeling a lot of anger, numbness, and shame.

Or, more likely, the PP doesn't actually know the couple in question. This forum is anonymous. It could be anybody. "I heard they talked it out and now they are closer than ever" .... sounds like gossip to me.[/quote]

Agree.  Might not be about the same couple.  There is no man on the planet that would accept the fact strange men were being let into his house (and they had kids) to screw his wife while he was at work for multiple years and be closer to ever than her in 3 months from D-day.  In fact, affairs that take place in the home are the most traumatic to recover from—-studies estimate only 1-2% get over that.

Sounds like gossip or another couple with a different story, or yeah wife admitted to something but not the real deal.[/quote]

Yeah, I can’t imagine getting over that in 3 months.

An affair that happened in hotels or the AP’s house is bad enough, but knowing your spouse was cheating in YOUR house, in your bed? That’s a whole other level of betrayal.

I don’t believe this poster. At a minimum they would need to move before they could start to recover.

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