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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous] NP and a woman here. I think he did make a tough decision and I agree with it. I found out my DH was cheating, and now we're divorcing and I'm losing everything -- family, friends, house. It effing blows. I wish I hadn't found out and had my hand forced.[/quote] Your hand wasn't forced. You chose to divorce. Lots of people find out about adulteries and opt to stay. It's fine that you chose differently but you weren't forced. [/quote] I was forced in order to keep my dignity and self-respect. But if I hadn't found out, I would still have both my dignity and my family/friends/security/life. [/quote] It was your choice to interpret dignity and self-respect as something incompatible with staying post-adultery. Many women chose differently in your shoes, and it doesn't make them undignified or lacking in self-respect. [/quote]
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