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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]^^ Stop rationalizing and admit to yourself that cheating can (and when the cheater is exposed almost always does) affect the lives of the cheater’s kids.  Accept your character flaw, and the fact that is how almost every single person in your life who knows about it now or eventually finds out about it will view it, most importantly your kids.[/quote]

Stop acting like 2 adults having sex has ANY effect on their children. Most cases the so-called cheater isn't even cheating: their spouse lost interest in sex and the normal libido spouse is simply meeting that need elsewhere in order to keep the marriage together for the benefit of the kids. [/quote]

You keep covering for cheaters but fail to realize that your sex life is absolutely your kids business.  Your kids have a right to know that you only have sex with your spouse and then only on times when it doesn't take away from them.  If they find out their parents aren't perfect and one of them cheated, they will be decimated and will never trust another person again.  So your obligation as a parent doesn't end when they are adults either and you must lower your desire for your needs to theirs.  That's called being a parent and if it means you must be celibate because your spouse looses interest in sex, then that is what you signed up for when you procreated.  Cheating is devastating for kids, just as divorce is.  Own it. [/quote]

You are crazy.[/quote]

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