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Reply to "Why don't people leave their spouse instead of having affairs?"
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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I cheated, caught an STD, may end up divorced now anyway. In retrospect, I should have put 100% into the marriage and then left. I totally understand the state of mind of complete sexual starvation, and I put in a lot of effort to get things rolling for years, and years. But now, in hindsight, with everything unraveling, it would have been better to have the cataclysmic conversation of we need to fix this or else its over than to be where we both are now. [/quote] Yep. It should have been the tough but clear discussion and then make a plan for the next steps. If you put in effort without understanding why from her side, it isn’t real effort from her perspective. Good lesson. Do you have kids?[/quote]
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