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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I don't care what y'all do but the #1 reason BY FAR that I do not SAHP is because my spouse would even further check out and even further be unappreciative, unthankful, and ungrateful for everything I do running the house, raising the children, managing the sitters, planning sports/vacations/ECs, and bonding with the kids. He literally just tags along and works on his iPhone. 
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Interesting. This is my situation too except it’s a big part of why I continue to stay home. If I have to do everything anyway, I don’t also want a job too. How do you feel like your having a job makes your DH better?[/quote]

how do you live like this? Sounds awful. And you depend on him financially too?[/quote]

Yes. It didn’t start out this way. He had a less demanding job and was more hands on when the kids were toddlers/preschoolers. He has done progressively less and less around the house and now I just feel frustrated. I can’t make an informed choice about if I could go back to work or not because I have no idea what if anything he’d do to help me. He says he’d help but I have a hard time believing him.[/quote]

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