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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous] You do realize that affairs can go undetected? And that many people stay together after affairs? Kids have nothing to do with it.[/quote] https://www.dcurbanmom.com/jforum/posts/quote/255/15500105.page I beg to differ with your "kids have nothing to do with it" comment. You can't say you aren't RISKING your kids finding out. Nothing is assured in an affair. You can't say for certain that your AP won't develop feelings and spill the beans, [b]just as you can't say for certain that no one else will find out and spill the beans[/b] or a [b]myriad of other ways the beans can be spilled[/b] and the kids end up being hurt. If you want to have an affair I can't stop you. But if you are going to say you aren't risking pain for your kids I'm going to call bullshit.[/quote] Right?! It amazes me that people don't realize this. ESPECIALLY affairs with co-workers. Cheaters: You often aren't as clever or sly as you think you are. [/quote] Here’s the thing: AP partners figure they are away on business and in the clear. They go to a nice restaurant. Or they walk along a cute street and stop for coffee. Somewhere there is a kiss because hey, no one knows us here. Except the neighbor has business there too and he sees and now you have problems. [/quote]
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