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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]In these situations the person that is not on board with the new child is the one that is in the right. A woman does not have a right to a mans body via his sperm. If he doesn't not want another child this is his choice. Anyone that tries to shame him is wrong. It doesn't matter what he may have said or not said previously. He changed his mind. Deal with it.[/quote]

That's not the issue. The issue is that he lied to his wife for years and led her to believe he did want another child.

It's okay to not want kids. It's even okay to change your mind about them. But it's not okay to lie. [/quote]

I was the OP's wife. I left for this exact reason. I was strung along for 5 years with promises of adding another child. I didn't divorce because I stopped loving my ex, nor because he didn't want another child. I divorced because I could not understand how someone could claim to love someone and lie to them for so many years. Especially when I asked multiple times over those 5 years if he was sure that he was okay with another child and was reassured that he was on board. Lying can be very damaging to a relationship. [/quote]

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