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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I haven’t read through this entire thread. But the heart of the issue for me is the introduction of an element into my child’s life without permission from a fellow parent. I understand everyone moves at a different pace; some parents have different preferences and beliefs. Out of respect for that, as someone in a close enough personal circle to leave my child under your supervision, [b]I would expect to be informed a[/b]bout what my child is being exposed to. Everyone parents uniquely for their child and may prepare/respond differently if they have a heads up about it, or the right to decline.

It doesn’t matter if I think he Mom is uptight for making a big deal about something I don’t give second thought to. It’s about respecting others boundaries with their child, and not judging or deciding whether it’s okay to pierce/dye/paint/curse at my pace vs theirs as a parent.

Not all parents want their 13 year olds doing the same types of things. Different children face different challenges and opportunities. Understanding this, It’s a welcome courtesy to give specifics on party activities to all parents.

Yes, I would be upset. But not for too long. It would be a teaching moment for everyone.  [/quote]

Out of curiosity, how would you like to be informed? Do you expect the invitation to state that the kids will be getting a 'professional' makeover coupled with mocktails? Not trying to be snarky here, just wondering.

OP, my child is still in ES, but I wouldn't be shocked to find out that middle-schoolers played around with makeup. Mocktails are a bit trashy, IMHO, but I sure wouldn't take the offending parent to court.[/quote]

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