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[quote=Anonymous]OP, looking at your time line, she probably married you because her biological clock was ticking, and she was never that passionate about you.

So after years and kids and everyday demands, naturally she's feeling it even less. But you need it.

The way human nature works, and it works against us in mid-life crisis within a long-term relationship, is that you detach more and more without the sexual bond. And she will sense when she's lost you, and her instinctive reaction will likely be to charge into passionate/hysterical sex mode, at which time you two will have passionate sex again for a while to rebond. Then it will die down again.

Of course, your growing detachment may mean you are too far gone for her to pull you back at that point.

None of these things are conscious manipulations. It's just how human nature in long-term relationships between men and women works.

The trick is to find non-harmful ways to trigger bonding instincts, and not let it go too far so that the pair bond is so broken that people become indifferent.[/quote]

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