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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]61 yo man. Sorry but 40s is the age I look to date. Very few woman I've seen hold up well into their 50s and past menopause. [/quote]

I’m a 42yr old woman. The idea of dating someone 20 yrs older than me seems odd.  I think of the long term.  When I’m 62, you’d be 81.  Do you find many 40 yr old women to date?[/quote]

40 year old woman here and I was just thinking the same thing. 61 is too old for me. My limit would be about 53, but preferably 40-45.[/quote]
I am 47 female, and I would not date a 60+ year old unless he looked much younger, around 50 (maybe).  My DH is in his early 50's, but looks a bit younger.  He's got a bit of a belly but other than that is in pretty good shape.  I am a size 4 and am about the same weight as when I got married in my early 30's.

The only way a 60+ yr old man can get a 40 yr old woman is:

1. he has lots and lots of money
2. he is very fit and looks much younger than 60.          
3. the woman is very very desperate[/quote]

I know you want to believe that but you are so wrong.[/quote]
Really?  Well since this is an anonymous forum I suppose you could lie and tell me some story that "proves" me wrong.   As I said, I'm 47.. I have many female friends who are my age and no way would they date a 60 yr old who weren't either #1 or #2, and none of my friends are that desperate.[/quote]
OK, so your friends are not who I'm going to date.  But as for #1, it's nice to know that you would all whore yourself out for the right guy, no matter his age.  Some of you sound threatened that an older man like myself dates younger women in part for their better looks as if that's bad thing to choose when given the choice, or it's somehow immoral.  But at least I'm choosing someone based on who she is, which includes other factors than looks.  But your friends would date a man they would never choose if he has lots of money? Wow, that's really sad.[/quote]
OH, please,  :roll:  you are choosing a younger woman because of her physical attributes mostly. That makes you shallow.  How is that any worse than a woman choosing a man because he is able to financially support her and her children?    I bet if an older woman had a better personality and other non physical attributes that were better than the younger, more attractive woman, you'd still pick the younger woman simply because of her looks.  You are shallow.  Just admit it.    I don't care if you date only younger woman. I'm just informing you that no 40 year old woman would date a 60 yr old man unless the situation was one of the three.[/quote]

I don’t understand why someone is shallow for wanting a person with certain physical attributes. That would make one shallow if that’s how he chose whom to hire or even befriend, but that doesn’t have anything to do with which people attract us. We can choose whom to hire or whom to befriend, but we can’t choose what people we are attracted to. Attraction just is what it is. [/quote]
Then why call a woman a whore for wanting to find a man who can support her and her children?  It's not like most women want a sugar daddy so they can do nothing but shop all day. Most women just want a man who can financially support the family because they know that women do the majority of child care and house chores. You try doing the majority of that and wor full time.  And no, take out, warming up leftovers, not having your kids bathe for a week, etc.  doesn't count as doing the "majority of housework/childcare".

It's not shallow to be attracted to physical beauty. It is shallow to have that your #1 priority.[/quote]

You aren’t reading the posts correctly.  The post which calls women whores and the pot about shallowness are to different posts from two different people. I never said women are whores for wanting someone who can support them. I’m saying the exact opposite. Women are not whores for wanting financial stability any more than men are shallow for wanting physical beauty. [/quote]

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