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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Just tell him no and don't worry because he will have no difficulty finding willing partners for his sexual needs.  Don't  come back here in six months screaming about him having an extra marital affair.  You are making a HUGE mistake and divorce is in your future.[/quote]

And don't you come back here because your spouse caught you and your finances are in shambles. [/quote]

Do you seriously think that financial concerns is sufficient motivation to remain (faithful) in a low sex marriage?
You must not have a normal sex drive, if you actually believe that.[/quote]

Do you it's worth it to lose you spouse and kids over that? Divorce is also a big hit money wise. Ok so become single and date. [/quote]

1) There is no "spouse" to lose when it's already low sex marriage. How do you not get that? You are already room mates. The intimacy is gone, there's nothing more to lose.

2) You can never LOSE your kids! Both parents get 50/50 custody.

3) There you go again, pretending that $$$$ can compensate for a low sex existence. The assets get split evenly: how is that a " big hit "?[/quote]

Losing your kids 50% of the time is painful.

Is that worse than remaining in a marriage with someone who is cold and unaffectionate, and denies you sex? Only you can make that call...[/quote]

Exactly. Would I stay in a marriage with a cheater. If my finances depended on it, but I wouldn't care what happened to them. My life would focus around my kids and other things. If I was in a good financial position I would leave them in the dust. On the other hand, maybe the spouse knows he cheated and why she rarely sleeps with him. Or she suspects. Most women imo check up on their husbands from time to time. A woman's nature. I will bet she knows him pretty well.[/quote]

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