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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I guess because he believes you are his loving wife who cares about him, misses him, wants to be with him, and that you too might have some tiny shred of sexual desire?[/quote]

This is what me, OP's husband, and all husbands want to believe.

Then, reality hits.  It took me years to finally realize the woman I married is no longer the same woman.  I can empathize with her sacrifice, her exhaustion, her need for alone time.  But no amount of rational thought redirects the obvious:  my wife would rather do almost anything rather than re-connect sexually with me.

I am so super jealous of those married couples who still want to sleep with each other, and don't need perfect conditions to do so.  How wonderful married life must be for them![/quote]

A lot of women have martyr syndrome which is encouraged by the media. They say everything falls on them but how many of them will willingly give up that control and micro-managing to take the pressure off? We see it here, wives totally breathing down the husband's neck about minute things. "He doesn't put the socks in the drawer correctly, why does everything fall on me?!!"  Yeesh. Back off and enjoy life more, ladies.

- a happy married DW[/quote]

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