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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]First of all, a surprising number of men don't really care if their breath smells, or if their partner has an orgasm. They really don't care one way or the other. Women don't get that, just as they don't understand how a number of men don't care about whether things are clean or done a certain way. Certain men are simply results oriented, and as long as they get sex, get food, are comfortable and entertained, the details are not important. Was the plate clean? Meh. There was food. Did the woman cum? Meh. There was sex. Is the baby wearing dirty, backwards, too-small, non-matching clothes? Meh. It's dressed.

Second, any woman who finds that her partner can't or won't give her orgasms should give herself orgasms. Her orgasms are her responsibility. There are a lot of great toys. If you get trapped in a rigid notion that there's one right, pure, ideal way to have sex and have orgasms, and it doesn't work for you, you lose out. Of course, if your partner is selfish or eternally bumbling, naturally you don't feel like having sex with him. But when you do, get out the toys and make it as fun as you can. No need to be a martyr.

And yes, I said all this to my past partners who were sometimes bumbling or self-absorbed. They were often relieved and things were better and freer.[/quote]

Oh please.  Your excuse is very much "boys will be boys."   Well it's 2016.  Various things that used to be acceptable to women in the past (eg doing all of the housework) are no longer acceptable.  Men need to get with the program because the sexual revolution happened decades ago.  [/quote]

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