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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Same as previous posters - he is terrible in bed and I haven't had an orgasm (with him) in at least 20 years.[/quote]

Doesn't that mean YOU are terrible in bed?[/quote]

Is her husband having orgasms?  Yes?  Then she is good in bed and he is... not. [/quote]

How do you come to that bizarre conclusion?

If she doesn't know how to have an orgasm with her lifetime sexual partner it's more likely because she's frigid, not that he's "bad in bed."   If after all this time he has become completely inattentive it's because with women like that--frigid women who simply aren't connected to their sexuality and insist on blaming their own deficiencies on their partners--who could blame him?[/quote]

Then he shouldn't badger her for sex.  If he is having sex, and failing to pay attention to and figure out her orgasm, then that's 100% on him. It's not up to her to magically teach him to be empathic and sexually generous.  Some have it, some dont.  This guy clearly doesnt and if he's still guilting her into having sex regardless of knowing that she's not getting off... then he's a selfish prick on top of it. [/quote]

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