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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Hi OP. I'm DW who loves DH, but I'm no longer sexually attracted to him, though I always orgasm and within minutes. We do it 4 or 5 times/week unless I'm on my period. I'm mentally cringing to get it over and thinking of something else to make me orgasm, but I know it's important to him. His idea of love is sex and I do live him. Anyway, We've been together 16 years. He has sinus infections all the time, which makes him breathe through his nose and his breath is foul. I can't stand it. He's losing his hearing and our conversations are strained. Huge turn off. He's a handsome manly man, great dad and loves me to pieces. I'm mostly medical/physical ailments. Gross. [/quote]

I could be you although I also have a few emotional issues and resentment towards my husband but all in all he's a very generous guy who still thinks I'm beautiful after 20 years. My problem is I just want to get it over with. I even told him I would have sex five nights a week if we could just get down to business. I don't need crazy foreplay as a matter of fact I hate being touched down there and my breasts. I can come very quickly and always do. He wants to have foreplay and lots of stroking and kissing. Not me!!
Also he has bad breath which he denies. He says I'm saying that as an excuse to get out of sex! 
I don't think about other men. I masturbate a few times a month and to be honest that is the best way to get a release. Without all the mess! 
Sorry - I know I must sound like a bitch. [/quote]

I think my DW feels the same way as you do.  Except the bad breath, I am religious about hygiene.  I have thought about asking her to open the marriage.  Would you be relieved or hurt if you no longer had to put up with sex with your husband?  Would it allow you to enjoy the rest of the marriage without the burden of sex?[/quote]

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