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[quote=Anonymous]Woman here. I didn't lose interest in or desire for my husband. We had frequent sex and had the great friendship some others have discussed here, laughed a lot, similar world view, LIKED each other -- but at the end of the day, none of that mattered because he wanted someone who didn't look like me. My looks didn't change from before we got married to when we got divorced so there was no bait and switch. I didn't deny him sex. We shared dreams and hopes and fears. I initiated (or tried to anyway, but he wasn't interested, which at the time I thought was just the way he was -- madonna/whore complex or whatever), I came to bed naked like he asked me to when we got married. It's taken me some time to stop feeling like I failed in some way. Some people will not be satisfied no matter what you do. I think if you have most of what you want, as someone said earlier, don't let perfect get in the way of good. And maybe the marriage counseling will reveal some small ways she can make you feel more desired and small ways you can make her feel like making you feel more desired. [/quote]

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